Few things are less sexy than someone getting angry at pose balls! Sometimes the pose balls just won't work, in which case you need to keep your sense of humor and (if applicable) your erection and decide what to do next. You can also try standing up and sitting again, switching positions, logging out and then in again, or going to another location. Try turning your animations off and see how it goes. For instance, like me, you might have a fancy walk that you insist on keeping up wherever you go. Sometimes that means that you have another animation running. One problem with pose balls is that sometimes you'll "sit" on one, and it will just make you sit there, doing nothing interesting at all. If they're not blue or pink, usually it means they're not gender-specific, but even the gender-specific ones are just suggesting who goes where. Pose balls can be blue (for boys) or pink (for girls), but they can also be any other color. To use a pose ball, you right click on it, then select the "Sit here" box, which is sometimes updated to say things like "Love" or "Force her" or "Pump!" Not very poetic, but at least it makes it obvious what you need to click on. It's too bad there aren't more pose balls floating around in mid air for flying enthusiasts (to you pose ball designers and buyers: hint, hint). Pose balls: These can be on furniture or just lying around above the ground or in a pool or. But you should know that you can generally touch the furniture again to change the animation (say, from kissing to heavy petting), swap places, and sometimes to do other things. Clicking on an option usually gives you some pose balls, which you'll hear about in just a sec. For piece with a menu, you "touch" the piece of furniture (right click, then select touch) and a list of options pops up on your screen in blue. You can get couches, beds, rugs, and other kinds of furniture with animations built in. If they're two-or-more-person animations, the animation asks your pretty friend or friends if they want to let the animation take over, and if so, you're in business.įurniture: Convenient and flexible. Here are your options:īuilt-in animations: You buy these, then run them when you need them. The animations are usually the tricky part. I recommend finding them by going somewhere where people like to hook up and then being charming and terribly attractive, but there are always other options.
To have sex in Second Life, you usually need at least one partner, one or more animations, a place to go, and sometimes some virtual equipment. You might want to think twice about doing anything with it if, for instance, you have a RL partner who would be hurt to know about it. I'm not telling you that you should have sex in SL, just letting you know how it’s done. Please don't read it and then go proposition me.
This entry is not about how to have sex with me. Some people are all watching and clicking and no chat, while others may not care much about animations and are mostly fired up by the chat.
The scene usually involves an animation or three (more on that in a moment). The actual pleasure in virtual sex comes (sorry, no pun intended) in the form of chat and the scene in front of you. Plenty of gay and lesbian sex, BDSM, furry sex, and other flavors are out there. Not all avatars are human, and it's easier to scare up partners in some ways than in real life, so multiplesomes are not rare. A lot of it seems to have to do with yearnings and desires people have that aren't fulfilled in Real Life, so the kinkiness rating is way up there for a lot of folks. In case you wanted to know, though, here's all of that laid out for you.įirst of all, here are two things you should probably know about sex in Second Life: I couldn't find it, so like everyone else, I pieced everything together as I went. It took some research for me to find out what I really wanted was a breakdown of how everything was done. I knew people were having virtual sex all over SL, but I didn't know how that worked or what it involved. KateamdahlWhen I joined Second Life, I was curious about the sex thing.